The mystery of the Kersey headstone

In April, I paid a visit to Kersey in Suffolk. Like many Suffolk villages, it’s picturesque and full of ancient timber-framed houses, but Kersey is slightly different as its main street runs down and up the sides of a valley – quite unusual for a country that’s famously not very hilly. A ford runs across the main street, and at one end the church is perched above the village on a hill.

There’s some interesting memorials inside the church, and a large number of legible headstones in the churchyard. Some more legible than others, I noticed…

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Stoke-by-Nayland transcriptions

Stoke-by-Nayland c.1810-11 John Constable 1776-1837 Bequeathed by Henry Vaughan 1900 http://www.tate.org.uk/art/work/N01819

Over 2,000 baptisms from 1558-1626, and over 1,200 marriages from 1558-1754 now online for Stoke-by-Nayland in Suffolk. The village is right on the border with Essex, not too far from Colchester. So if your Essex ancestors aren’t appearing in Essex registers, give the Stoke-by-Nayland transcriptions a try. There’s quite a few Colchester couples in the marriages, as well as people from Boxted, Dedham, and other nearby Essex parishes.

Grass widows in Stoke-by-Nayland

An etching by Jacques Callot of a beggar woman and her children, 1622. The Wellcome Collection.

I’m currently transcribing Stoke-by-Nayland’s parish registers, and I was rather confused by a marriage that took place on 23rd July 1622 between:

Amye Wright Grasse widow and Nathaniel Ratcatcher.

First of all, the entry is very unusual, giving the bride’s name before the groom’s. Secondly, it looks like Amy has two surnames, and that the groom’s surname has been missed off, giving his occupation instead.

So what were their names? Amy Wright, or Amy Grasse? Nathaniel Wright, or Nathaniel Grasse?

I carried on transcribing and met another, on 12th May 1633:

John Gallant widd. to Susan Clarke grease widd.

I realised then that “grease” or “grasse” wasn’t a surname, and the expression “grass widow” came to mind.

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